I remember a time when I was dating someone, and he was very much into anal sex. He wasn’t into it the way other guys I knew did, and I was just the type of girl that was attracted to guys that did things that he wasn’t comfortable with.
It’s a strange thing, but I think people can become comfortable with an activity that many people find off-putting. It’s like a sort of Stockholm Syndrome, and when it comes to sex, I think it’s a lot like Stockholm Syndrome.
So what do you do when you find yourself getting too comfortable? And then after all of your inhibitions are gone, do you return to your normal state of affairs? I’m going to guess that most of us have spent a lot of time in that state when we’re single, and then after we’ve tried to get into a relationship for awhile, found it wasn’t quite right.
The easiest way to get out of it is to move on. In the case of sex, we all want to get it on, we just don’t know how to.
The solution is not to get into a relationship. Not as in, we have sex, then move on. The solution is to move on and find another relationship. That is, to get out of the whole, “I’m just trying to get into a relationship” thing. The only way out is to say “This is not working for me anymore.
Well it seems to be working now. Thats what makes it worth it.
It’s just one of those things we all find ourselves doing. It’s the one thing we do that gets us out of bed in the morning and leaves us feeling good about ourselves.
There are certainly worse things a person can do to themselves, but I would argue that whoring is one of the most common ones. People who do this are usually doing it out of some deep insecurity and a need to feel better about themselves. It’s an intense form of self-loathing that often results in a person doing a lot of things that they don’t want to do, and they are only in relationships for that purpose.
This is an old post that I wrote a while back. We’re just now going to see the final version of whoring, which is a time-warping game that puts us in the shoes of the protagonist, a guy who whores himself out to be the best lover he can be, and is only in relationships for that purpose.
I haven’t played whoring yet (I have played games with whores), but the idea of a game that actually puts us in the shoes of the protagonist is a neat one. Even if you haven’t played whoring, the concept of having to act like the characters that you are writing about is very interesting. It’s something we are going to have to try out with our own characters.