It is no surprise that humans are not able to tell the difference between the right and wrong. We are built to be good, and we can’t help but try to live up to our own standards.
This is a common problem that has plagued humankind. A typical example of this problem is when you are having a bad day and you think, “I should be angry, but I’m not.” Then you get angry at your own anger and forget what you were trying to prove the other day: that you were right to be mad in the first place.
The problem is with those who think they know what the right and wrong is. They think they are right because of their own personal standards and are unaware that they are wrong. A typical example of this is when someone decides to go out of their way to be a jerk to another person. They are trying to prove that they are right, but when it comes down to it, they are still wrong.
We have all been there. A little too often, people choose to be right when they don’t even know whether they are right or wrong. This is especially true when it comes to personal relationships. The problem is when this happens because we don’t really know what the other person is thinking. We can’t just go to their house and ask them whether they agree with what we’re saying or not.
The problem you face is when you don’t have any idea what the person you are talking with is thinking about you. Most people are so wrapped up in their own thoughts, opinions, and feelings that they often miss out on the other person’s thoughts and feelings. They are stuck in their own head and can’t see the other person for what they really are. This is one of the most frustrating things to deal with because it is so easy to convince yourself that you are right.
Exactly. It is the same reason why people are so afraid to talk to strangers. Your own thoughts and opinions are so ingrained in your brain that if you can see and hear the other person, it can be a lot harder to persuade them they are worth listening to.
So what can you do, other than work on your own self-awareness? Try to ignore everyone else’s thoughts and feelings, and listen to your own. This doesn’t mean that you should never talk to anyone.
So how do you do that? Well, you might want to learn to read people’s minds (which is pretty easy) or have a close friend talk to you as well (which is not as easy). But if you’re asking me, the best way is to just listen to what the other person is saying, and then respond accordingly. A lot of people have tried this method and are pretty successful at it. But it is a lot of work.
Yes. So you can listen to your feelings for the other person, but you can’t listen to them for the entire time. You need to be able to process the feelings for a few seconds at a time over a few days before you can respond.
It can take a few weeks or a few months for a person to feel exactly what they want. It’s normal for new people to not feel what they want right away, but its more common for people to get there. Ive had people say they have a million questions for me after they’ve just had sex, but they never really felt what they wanted to.
